People always criticised me on that fact that I don't like public display of love I mean for me love is a eternal feeling and should must be kept eternal only I don't like when couples in mall are like falling on each other the every step they take I don't know they have polio or what …Some would be sitting next to each other in a restrauent or some other place where every once can see them The guy would be trying to be as close as possible to the girl (or the boy only in a different choice) be it to try n touch the girl's neck or cheeks or may be try to move his hand all over the back and the girls lap , & This thing is not only with boys but with the girl as well she will also try to be as touchy as possible she would be resting her head on boys shoulder while sitting while walking ,while running may be as well.
I really don't find this to be a appropriate behaviour , We know & they as well that someone or else would be for sure around them looking at them and those ‘someone's’ could be a old lady saying “ shame on girl” A brother and sister both thinking “shit man why here as well i don't know how to face him/her now(the brother or the sister)” Or even may be a school/college professor saying “See what all shame these guys are doing here in front of everyone, they tell there parents that we’re going to school/college and then see what they do here ”
Whole thing i want to point out here is that why do we need to show our love to the world..I dont ask couple’s to not even hold hands and walk together that's something very normal even a brother sister walk like this that's not a big thing I'll rather say that the act of holding each other hand is a sign of mature society. But the act of doing things i mentioned earlier are the the signs of society getting diverted towards a situation where “there is no shame left”.
I’m not at all against public display of love but its just i don't like it I don't like to do I don't like to see others do.
rightly said bro..,,our generation needs to understand these things.public display of love is somethin not acceptable.
malls n streets are no place to show ur love. i think there're better ways to show that u care.,other than holding hands or walkin close to eachother in public.
i fully agree wid u swty .. dese PDAs r sumthn which really spoil atmosphere not only of the place but uderwise oso..
how much ever v try 2 move 2wrds westrn culture at d end v awl r indians wid certain limitations ..
One thing i can neva understnd is y d hell dey need 2 make dere bossoming puppy luv "pub - lick " !!! 4 hvnz sake man dere are private places as well... gud lord !
Hi Aditya,
Header says "Public display of Love" when it should have been "Public display of Affection" the word "Love" cannot be measured and is certainly not always used to relate or address a physical action. You talk here about "Shame" a few years back and even today the word "Shame" has a total different meaning and it changes from place to place and from person to person and will always keep changing and when you cannot understand the meaning of something try seeing it from the other angles. Your article has a very perverted attitude, you make the whole thing the whole acts of passion and love sound like a desperate attempt of groping your partner. Love is beyond that. you are too young to even begin with this.
Talking about Indian culture a few years back and even some places now people dont see the faces or their life partners before they get married, that was our culture was not very justified but was still being done...so today if you are dating a girl or if you are in a serious relationship with a girl you will still be offending the culture our culture was to leave those decision to parents too. (this was the INDIAN CULTURE) culture spawns through mentality and mentality is the thought process.
Some more things you said "I’m not at all against public display of love but its just i don't like it I don't like to do I don't like to see others do". If you always write like this please change please evolve skill of writing cause it sounds like you dont know whatever you wrote "I don't like to see others do" yeah!!!! clearly says you dislike it shows you dont support it. sounds like you had some real mood spasms while writing your piece or "I’m not at all against public display of love" was your attempt to make this sound politically correct or just a diplomatic move of your to make it sound level headed....btw when I say politically correct I only mean the terminology of the word "politically correct" am not including politics in this.
My humble request to you would be to write this a few years down the line when you are some where around 27 or more. I would have written more on here but I dont think it can be understood by someone of your age which I seriously believe is not more than 22 years or more as the immature attitude and the poor level of thought is too loud in your piece.
@Meister J
thanks 4 ur comments will work on it
thanks bro! sorry for the multiple comments when I tried putting them as one single comment for some reason it never displayed.
im sry bt i disagree!!
hv opinons bt nt the mood to write them down... :P........
same here! @minx: ;)
cant express dude.
coz i have a mixed opinion.